Sharon and Marshall pose by the Snake River on one of their practice honeymoons.
After 14 short years of unwedded bliss and a few hundred hours of thoughtful discussion on the topic, Sharon and I have reached a new level in our ascending relationship. On Monday, December 30, we drove to the courthouse and bought a license to be married - and we intend to use it! ("Finally!" you're probably saying right now.)
We know this is short notice for you, but we wanted you to feel welcome to join us if you can.
Everything you need to know should be on this page, which should be useful for those of you who can read. For our illiterate friends, please read this to them sometime when they're sober.
Please contact either Sharon or me if you have any questions or comments. We're excited!
Latest News: Several people have already RSVP'd, so a good crowd is gathering. Sharon's sister, Peggy Chall will be performing the Bridesmaid duties with suitable aplomb. Mark Welsh has confirmed that he will be standing at the groom's side in his role as Best Man. We selected and ordered our wedding rings on January 8. The jewelers assured us that the rings would be ready in time for our wedding. Other plans for food, drink, and decor are in the works. We are not planning an immediate honeymoon, although you can be assured that we will be exercising that option many times over the coming years.
At approximately 4 pm on Saturday, January 25th, 2003, Sharon and I will exchange our marriage vows under the aegis of our friend, Rich, who is a Notary Public (and who will play The Wedding March on harmonica for us). The reception will follow immediately, if not sooner.
While the timing of this event is driven largely by practical reasons, it should not imply that our spiritual and emotional commitment is any less than if we had done this ten years ago. This is not a step to be taken lightly, and is a step that we have given long and careful consideration. Sharon will continue to keep her family name, and has decided not to hyphenate herself into a nightmare of extra paperwork. We are not planning to have children. We do plan to take a honeymoon. Often.
You say reception; I say party. This will be very informal by most wedding standards, but we guarantee that it will be a happy occasion. Food, drink, music, and the energetic conviviality of our relatives and friends will be combined into one memorable evening. Children are welcome.
The subject of "what to wear" came up, and I'm pretty open about this. Sharon suggested: black-tie semi-formal clothing optional. The weather will play a large role in determining what will be appropriate on our special day. If it is warm, I'm thinking that men would be OK in shorts and a collared shirt. If you want to drink champagne, you better not be wearing blue jeans and tennis shoes. No cut-offs, no tank tops (well, maybe, if your boobs are really nice), tuxedoes are not required, but are certainly acceptable. Look at it this way: the marriage ceremony is worthy of dressing up, but as the festivity moves into the evening, less formal attire will be more comfortable until we're all swimming naked in the pool.
2380 NE 14th Terrace, Pompano Beach, FL 33064
Exit I-95 onto Copans Road EAST.
Drive EAST on Copans Rd about 2 miles to NE 12th Terrace and turn NORTH (LEFT).
Drive NORTH on NE 12th Terrace two blocks to NE 23rd Place and turn EAST (RIGHT).
Drive two blocks EAST on NE 23rd Place and find a place to park.
Map: http://www.mapquest.com/maps/map.adp?savedMap=1041527693
There is some parking available at our house, but it is not designed to accommodate more than a few cars. We highly recommend parking at the Pompano Square near Copans Road and NE 14th Terrace and walking the two blocks to the festivities.
Our guest room is already booked, so if you know someone in the area who will put you up, that might be a good plan. Several area hotels are also available, but here are a few that we can recommend: (http://www.bozaza.com/HHCrew/family/hotels.html)
You are not required to RSVP, but we would appreciate it if you would indicate that you are coming by sending us an email (RSVP at: bo_zaza@ix.netcom.com), phoning us (954-943-0769), or mailing us a note.
The only presents we request is your presence.
If you want to send or bring a gift, and need a hint, click here.
Cards can be sent to our home at: 2380 NE 14th Terrace, Pompano Beach, FL 33064
- Marshall and Sharon
